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Religion
Bad Attitudes
By Pastor Phillip Howle
web
posted December 2, 2009
RELIGION – According to the dictionary,
the word "attitude" means "an internal position or feeling with regard
to people or circumstances." Other words often used as synonyms
are: "disposition, feelings, mood, opinion, sentiment, temper, tone,
perspective, frame of mind, outlook, view, or morale." I hate bad
attitudes. However, I know that at times I be can blind to me own bad
attitude. Usually my wife lets me know pretty quickly.
You see according to God’s word, when you become a Christian, you
become a new creation accompanied by a new attitude as well. 2
Corinthians 5:17 tells us this “Therefore if anyone is in Christ, there
is a new creation; old things have passed away, and look, new things
have come. “ Frankly an un-godly and unchristian attitude maybe a sign
that you are not a new creation in Christ not and not a Christian.
Attitude is that serious!
I find in many people a Pop-eye like mentality who said “I yam, what I
yam.” He was a simple sea-faring, pipe-smoking guy, who loved Olive Oil
and spinach. So many people view their lives as impossible to change.
They believe that “I can never be different, I’ll never move any closer
to God, what I got is what I got, I wish things were different, but it
is just who I am.”
It does not have to be this way! What I want all of us to do right now
is to examine our attitudes. Honestly, if the shoe fits wear it.
Warning: This may not be pleasant. (List influenced by Nancy Leigh
Demoss’s book, Brokenness)
• People with unchristian attitudes focus on the
failures of others
But Christians should be overwhelmed with a
sense
of their own spiritual need.
• People with unchristian attitudes are
self-righteous.
They have a critical fault-finding spirit.
They look at everyone else's faults with a
microscope, but their own with a telescope.
.
But Christians should be compassionate.
.
They can forgive much because they know how much
they have been forgiven.
• People with unchristian attitudes have an
independent, self-sufficient spirit.
.
But Christian’s should have a dependent spirit and
recognize their need for others.
• People with unchristian attitudes claim rights and
have a demanding spirit
.
But Christians should yield their rights and have a
meek spirit.
• Proud wit unchristian attitudes desire to be served
.
But Christians should be motivated to serve others.
• People with unchristian attitudes have a drive to
be recognized, to be appreciated.
.
But broken people have a sense of their own
unworthiness and are thrilled that
God would use them at all in any ministry.
• People with unchristian attitudes feel confident in
how much they know
.
But Christians humbled by how much they have to
learn.
• People with unchristian attitudes are unapproachable
.
But Christians should be easy to be close to
• People with unchristian attitudes are defensive
when criticized
.
But Christians receive criticism with a humble,
open spirit.
• People with unchristian attitudes find it difficult
to share their spiritual needs with others.
.
But Christians should be willing to be open and
transparent with others
• People with unchristian attitudes have a hard time
saying, "I was wrong. Will you please forgive me?"
.
But Christians should be quick to admit their
failures and to seek forgiveness whenever necessary.
• People with unchristian attitudes are concerned
about the consequences of their sin
.
But Christians should be grieved over the hurt
their sin has caused God and others
• People with unchristian attitudes are blind to
their real heart condition
.
but Christians should always walk in the light.
• People with unchristian attitudes don't think they
have anything to repent of
.
But Christians should realize that they have need
of a continual heart attitude of repentance.
Is your attitude unchristian? Is it ruining your life, your
marriage, messing up church, then here is the best news you will ever
hear: there is no one who wants you to change your life more than
Jesus Christ who has died for your sins does!
Look at 1 Peter 5:6-7 Humble yourselves therefore under the
mighty hand of God, so that He may exalt you in due time,
(7) casting all your care upon Him, because He cares about you.
Peter says be humble, admit there is a problem! God will lift you up
and give you new way of life!
Read the words of Jesus as he says to you in Matthew 11:28-30
"Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you
rest. (29) All of you, take up My yoke and learn from Me, because
I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for yourselves.
(30) For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
Let me close with a quote from Chuck Swindoll "The longer I live, the
more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more
important than facts. It is more important than the past, than
education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than
successes, than what other people think or say or do.. It is more
important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or
break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have
a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past ... we cannot change the fact that people
will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only
thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our
attitude ... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90%
how I react to it.”
Understand that today your attitude will determine what you see in life
and how it affects you. Take the hummingbird and the vulture, both
birds fly in the air constantly looking for food. But, all the vultures
see is rotting meat, because that is what they look for. They
thrive on that diet. But hummingbirds ignore the smelly flesh of dead
animals. Instead, they look for the colorful blossoms of flowers and
plants. The vultures live on what was. They live on the past.
They fill themselves with what is dead and gone. But hummingbirds live
on what is. They seek new life. They fill themselves with
freshness and life. Each bird finds what it is looking for. We
all do.
So today what are you looking for in life?
• Reasons to complain and gripe
• Reasons to be mad
• People to be jealous of
• Things to get your feelings hurt over
• Do you live in hate in the past like the vulture?
• Or do you seek new life like the humming bird?
Today you are in control of your attitude and not much else. Be a
Christians and approach your world today with the attitude congruent
with what you claim to be.
Pastor Phillip
Feel free to contact with me any questions or comments at philliphowle@hotmail.com
You can also check out my devotional blog at http://www.philliphowle.com. Or
you can stop by and see me on Sunday Morning at 11:00 am at Antioch
Baptist Church.
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